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Bad gifts

Dec 22nd, 2009 | By Benjamin Strong

Are you guilty of buying your spouse or significant other a bad gift?  Over the years I have purchased my wife a salad spinner, stuffed her stocking with Listerine Breath Strips (what the heck was I thinking?) and purchased concert tickets for a show I was much more interested in than she was.
What are your [...]

We could learn a lesson from Rudolph

Dec 21st, 2009 | By Benjamin Strong

Have you ever paid close attention to the classic Christmas television program Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer? Rudolph and Hermey are misfits and the misfit toys are marooned on an Arctic island. It seems people with differences are sort of dismissed. But what’s interesting is that the North Pole is actually quite [...]

Trick or Trunk?

Oct 27th, 2009 | By Benjamin Strong

Times have certainly changed.  My wife and I struggle with how to give our kids the same kind of Halloween we experienced as kids.  The Halloween of our childhood has sadly passed us by.  Instead,  the mall offers trick or treating, we cart the kids around to relatives houses, and we keep some candy in [...]

Explaining 9/11 to my son

Sep 11th, 2009 | By Benjamin Strong

I have never written about my experiences on September 11th.  At the time I was working for the Federal Emergency Management Agency in the Urban [...]

Your Special Child and Sports

Aug 14th, 2009 | By Benjamin Strong

In the wake of Eunice Shriver’s death I thought I would share a recent debate that has been evolving within the Down syndrome support group [...]

A Kiddie Roundup with Buck Howdy

Aug 4th, 2009 | By Benjamin Strong
A Kiddie Roundup with Buck Howdy

My family enjoys many children’s performers such as the Wiggles, Dan Zanes, and Raffi. Recently we were introduced to Buck Howdy.  My wife was working so I decided to load the boys up and take them to our local zoo for the day.  The zoo’s barnyard area is contained and I can let all three [...]

Words Can Hurt

Aug 3rd, 2009 | By Benjamin Strong

My wife and I are preparing our oldest son for kindergarten.  This is a huge step for him.  Our oldest has Down syndrome and we decided to hold him back a year in preschool.  Now, however, he is ready for kindergarten.  While I am excited about the new things my son will be exposed to [...]

Random Thoughts On Love

Jul 3rd, 2009 | By Benjamin Strong

The other day I heard my middle son say to my wife, “Mommy, I love you as fast as an airplane and as high as [...]

I am a rock star!

Jun 27th, 2009 | By Benjamin Strong

My wife and I work somewhat separate schedules.  I work a typical 9-5 schedule while she works part time at a hospital.  That means I spend some time watching our three boys by myself.  When the kids get all spun up and I start to get frustrated we need to find something to calm us [...]

Breakfast + Supper = Bupper!

May 2nd, 2009 | By Benjamin Strong

Traveling for work I often find my kids a bit unruly when I return.  They are always excited to see me and can turn an already hectic time (dinner) into something even more chaotic.  If my wife is working when I come home I am often left to fend for myself while three hungry boys [...]