The job of Storyteller has a long and worthy history in this country and is, I’m happy to say, an old tradition that in recent years has been resurrected – and rightly so. However, I don’t think it’s just the role of an official storyteller, or that of teachers, to introduce children to the wonders of the written word.

To me, teaching our kids to read and instilling them with a love of books and literature is, quite simply, one of the best gifts of love a parent can bestow.

We have the chance to show them whole new worlds inhabiting the pages; to enhance their imaginations and creative skills by showing them how characters can come to life inside their minds; to instil in them a love of the knowledge they can find within books; and to teach them that they need never be bored while there’s a library nearby.

We’re blessed in that we have such a vast range of authors and genres which we can use to do this. From Dr Seuss to Roald Dahl, from AA Milne to JK Rowling. It’s all there for us to read to, and with, our children.

I’m not fortunate enough to be with my two boys 24/7, but I’m luckier than many in that I have plenty of access and I make time to spend with them as well. And for me, the best part of that time is reading with them, which I do every Thursday evening as well as at weekends.

With Josh, who’s just three, it’s mostly bedtime stories and Dr Seuss – but to see his eyes light up when we read ‘The Cat in the Hat’ together is just amazing. I’ve also started introducing him to poetry – today, for example, we were walking around the living room to AA Milne’s ‘Lines and Squares‘, stepping in time to the rhythm of the verse, both of us shouting, “Bears!” at the appropriate moment.

Then there was the wonderful moment of reciting ‘Jabberwocky‘ – chasing a screaming Josh around the room, being ‘the jaws that bite, the claws that catch’. He loves it, and he doesn’t even know he’s learning.

Jay, at 10, is more difficult, however Roald Dahl is always a winner. His characters are so vibrant and rounded, his goodies so good and his villians so vile, that it gains and holds the attention of even an older boy. And of course, the graphic descriptions of baddies meeting sticky ends is always popular. We’re doing Charlie and the Chocolate Factory – and we share the reading, so he both learns and is entertained at the same time.

I’ve also started bringing poetry to Jay – he needs a little help with his reading at the moment, and the cadence and structure of simple poems seems to aid both his concentration on the words and also on his expressiveness when reading. The choice of subject matter also helps – I find that snot-related verse seems to have the desired effect!

My best friend Loudmouthman recently wrote an excellent piece on the Duty and Responsibility of being a Dad, which I urge you to read. However, I believe that a big part of that responsibility is very simple.

Read with your kids.

You never know – it might even be fun.

6 Comments


  1. We also value reading. It’s great that you have a scheduled time for reading. On weekends, I will make a simple schedule for the kids and time for reading is always on it. We may have to try your poetry ideas. Keep reading.


  2. We also value reading. It’s great that you have a scheduled time for reading. On weekends, I will make a simple schedule for the kids and time for reading is always on it. We may have to try your poetry ideas. Keep reading.


  3. What I read to my 2 girls has really changed over the past few years. At 11, my oldest loves fantasy books so we’ve taken up reading Neil Gaiman’s books like Coraline.

    Right now we are halfway through Ender’s Game which is her first real Sci-Fi book. It’s amazing to see this sort of books through a kid’s eyes; not only does it push her ability to understand metaphors (Sci-Fi is the best at pushing life metaphors) but gives me a chance to plug back into far away worlds which ends up stimulating my imagination as much as it does hers.

    Personally, I love to read books that are a tad higher than their current school reading level because we can go slow and take our time understanding concepts and harder words. So far, it seems like a good strategy.

    This weekend, my older girl even picked up the NY Times and tried to read an article about the election.

    The coolest thing is when we all sit as a family, each reading our own books silently on the couch with the TV off. A thing of beauty.


  4. What I read to my 2 girls has really changed over the past few years. At 11, my oldest loves fantasy books so we’ve taken up reading Neil Gaiman’s books like Coraline.

    Right now we are halfway through Ender’s Game which is her first real Sci-Fi book. It’s amazing to see this sort of books through a kid’s eyes; not only does it push her ability to understand metaphors (Sci-Fi is the best at pushing life metaphors) but gives me a chance to plug back into far away worlds which ends up stimulating my imagination as much as it does hers.

    Personally, I love to read books that are a tad higher than their current school reading level because we can go slow and take our time understanding concepts and harder words. So far, it seems like a good strategy.

    This weekend, my older girl even picked up the NY Times and tried to read an article about the election.

    The coolest thing is when we all sit as a family, each reading our own books silently on the couch with the TV off. A thing of beauty.


  5. When my daughter (now age 8) was very young (around 3 or 4) my wife and I used to tell her “Kayla Stories” (her name is Kayla). I think my wife started it first, but every night she wouldn’t go to sleep until one of us had told her a “Kayla Story”.

    Essentially, you had a make up a story about her. It needed to be all about her. The funny thing is that she always changed our stories. If she didn’t like the direction we were taking it – she would say “no, it should be…..” and we would let her guide the story in this way. It was a lot of fun and she eventually grew out of wanting to hear them. However, putting her to bed wasn’t a quick kiss and a “good night”. After a while it became quite a challenge to think up a different story every night. 🙂

    Ed


  6. When my daughter (now age 8) was very young (around 3 or 4) my wife and I used to tell her “Kayla Stories” (her name is Kayla). I think my wife started it first, but every night she wouldn’t go to sleep until one of us had told her a “Kayla Story”.

    Essentially, you had a make up a story about her. It needed to be all about her. The funny thing is that she always changed our stories. If she didn’t like the direction we were taking it – she would say “no, it should be…..” and we would let her guide the story in this way. It was a lot of fun and she eventually grew out of wanting to hear them. However, putting her to bed wasn’t a quick kiss and a “good night”. After a while it became quite a challenge to think up a different story every night. 🙂

    Ed

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