As parents, we all want what’s best for our children. Education, health, happiness – all these and more are top of our lists when it comes to our kids being happy and having the best start in life. Yet we also need to understand that at times we may not always be going the right way at making these things happen.
Children are fast learners, and what they learn from us goes a long way into shaping who they become. Helping them grow while letting them grow is so important – sometimes it’s easy to make the little mistakes that might mean a lot to our kids.
- Kids will make mistakes. Heck, we’re still making mistakes as adults! Just because our kids make a mistake doesn’t mean they’re not trying their best. If we allow them to make their mistakes and support as opposed to chide, they’ll learn faster and won’t be afraid to try new things.
- The way we respond to the mistakes our children make can make things worse. We shouldn’t be coming out with accusatory messages like, “How could you do that?” or “What were you thinking?”. Instead, let’s try and see the positive each time and help our kids understand why it was wrong and how it can be worked around.
- Admit to our own mistakes. If we get something wrong, let’s admit to it instead of trying to look for someone or something else to blame, and let our kids see that we were wrong. Knowing that we can admit to making mistakes will help them realize making mistakes isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but something to learn from and improve on.
Like I said earlier, children grow up fast so we only have a small window to play with. Let’s make it count.
Danny Brown is father to a beautiful daughter and owner of Press Release PR, a boutique agency specializing in search engine optimized press releases and social media PR. He is also a blog partner of the iEntry and WebProNews network and an avid supporter of Toronto FC. Say hello to him on Twitter.